Do you often feel lonely and sad? Do you long for romance and are willing to do whatever it takes to meet that special person? Speaking another language could revolutionize your love life! So, why wait? Learning how to say ‘love’ in Urdu could be just what you need to find it.
Or perhaps you were lucky, and have found your Urdu partner already. Fantastic! Yet, a cross-cultural relationship comes with unique challenges. Learning how to speak your lover’s language will greatly improve your communication and enhance the relationship. At UrduPod101, our team will teach you all the words, quotes and phrases you need to woo your Urdu lover with excellence! Our tutors provide personal assistance, with plenty of extra material available to make Urdu dating easy for you.
Table of Contents
- Common Phrases You’ll Need for a Date
- The Most Romantic Ideas for a Date
- Must-know Valentine’s Day Vocabulary
- Urdu Love Phrases for Valentine’s Day
- Urdu Quotes about Love
- Marriage Proposal Lines
- 15 Most Common Break-Up Lines
- Will Falling in Love Help You Learn Urdu Faster?
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1. Common Phrases You’ll Need for a Date
So, you have met your Urdu love interest. Congratulations! Who knows where this could take you…?! However, the two of you have just met and you’re not ready to say the Urdu word for love just yet. Great, it is better to get to know him/her first. Wow your prospective love by using these Urdu date phrases to set up a spectacular first date.
Would you like to go out to dinner with me?
- آپ میرے ساتھ رات کے کھانے کے لئے باہر جانا پسند کریں گی؟
- Aap meray sath raat ky khanay ky liye bahir jana pasand kerein gi?
The important question! In most cultures, this phrase indicates: ‘I’m romantically interested in you’. Flirting in Urdu is no different, so don’t take your date to Mcdonald’s!
Are you free this weekend?
- کیا اس ہفتے کے آخر میں آپ فارغ ہیں؟
- Kia iss haftay ky akhir mei aap farigh hain?
This is a preamble to asking your love interest on a date. If you get an immediate ‘Yes’, that’s good news!
Would you like to hang out with me?
- کیا آپ میرے ساتھ باہر جانا پسند کریں گی؟
- Kia aap meray sath bahir jana pasand kerein gi?
You like her/him, but you’re not sure if there’s chemistry. Ask them to hang out first to see if a dinner date is next.
Where shall we meet?
- ہم کہاں ملیں؟
- Hum kahan milein?
You can ask this, but also suggest a place.
You look great.
- آپ بہت زبردست لگ رہی ہیں.
- Aap bohat zabardast lag rahi hain.
A wonderful ice breaker! This phrase will help them relax a bit – they probably took great care to look their best just for you.
You are so cute.
- آپ بہت پیاری ہیں.
- Aap bohat piyari hain.
If the two of you are getting on really well, this is a fun, flirtatious phrase to use.
What do you think of this place?
- آپ کا اس جگہ کے بارے میں کیا خیال ہے؟
- Aap ka iss jagah ky baray mei kia khayal hai?
This another good conversation starter. Show off your Urdu language skills!
Can I see you again?
- میں آپ سے دوباره مل سکتا ہوں؟
- Mei aap say dobarah mil sakta hun?
So the date went really well – don’t waste time! Make sure you will see each other again.
Shall we go somewhere else?
- ہم کہیں اور چلیں؟
- Hum kahin aur chalein?
If the place you meet at is not great, you can suggest going elsewhere. It is also a good question to follow the previous one. Variety is the spice of life!
I know a good place.
- میں ایک اچھی جگہ جانتا ہوں.
- Mei aik achi jagah janta hun.
Use this with the previous question. However, don’t say if you don’t know a good place!
I will drive you home.
- میں آپ کو گھر چهوڑ دوں گا.
- Mei aap ko ghar chor dun ga.
If your date doesn’t have transport, this is a polite, considerate offer. However, don’t be offended if she/he turns you down on the first date. Especially a woman might not feel comfortable letting you drive her home when the two of you are still basically strangers.
That was a great evening.
- وه ایک بہترین شام تھی.
- Woh aik behtreen sham thi.
This is a good phrase to end the evening with.
When can I see you again?
- میں آپ کو دوبارہ کب دیکھ سکتا ہوں؟
- Mei aap ko dobarah kab daikh sakta hun?
If he/she replied ‘Yes’ to ‘Can I see you again?’, this is the next important question.
I’ll call you.
- میں آپ کو فون کروں گا / گی.
- Mei aap ko phone karun ga / gi.
Say this only if you really mean to do it. In many cultures, this could imply that you’re keeping the proverbial backdoor open.
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2. The Most Romantic Ideas for a Date
You learned all the Urdu phrases to make a date – congratulations! Now you have to decide where to meet, which can be tricky. Discuss these options with your lover to gauge whether you like the same things. Check out romantic date ideas in Urdu below!
candlelit dinner
- شمع بردار رات کا کھانا
- Shama bardar raat ka khana.
A candlelit dinner is perhaps best to reserve for when the relationship is getting serious. It’s very intimate, and says: “Romance!” It’s a fantastic choice if you’re sure you and your date are in love with each other!
go to the zoo
- چڑیا گھر جانا
- Chirya ghar jana
This is a good choice for shy lovers who want to get the conversation going. Just make sure your date likes zoos, as some people dislike them. Maybe not for the first date, but this is also a great choice if your lover has children – you’ll win his/her adoration for inviting them along!
go for a long walk
- طویل پیدل چلنے کے لئے جانا
- Taweel paidal chalnay ky liye jana
Need to talk about serious stuff, or just want to relax with your date? Walking together is soothing, and a habit you can keep up together always! Just make sure it’s a beautiful walk that’s not too strenuous.
go to the opera
- اوپرا کے لیے جانا
- Opera ky liye jana
This type of date should only be attempted if both of you love the opera. It can be a special treat, followed by a candlelit dinner!
go to the aquarium
- مچهلی گهر جانا
- Machli ghar jana
Going to the aquarium is another good idea if you need topics for conversation, or if you need to impress your lover’s kids! Make sure your date doesn’t have a problem with aquariums.
walk on the beach
- ساحل سمندر پر چلنا
- Sahil e samundar per chalna
This can be a very romantic stroll, especially at night! The sea is often associated with romance and beauty.
have a picnic
- پکنک پر جانا
- Picnic per jana
If you and your date need to get more comfortable together, this can be a fantastic date. Spending time in nature is soothing and calms the nerves.
cook a meal together
- ایک دوسرے کے ساتھ کھانا پکانا
- Aik dusray ky sath khana pakana
If you want to get an idea of your date’s true character in one go, this is an excellent date! You will quickly see if the two of you can work together in a confined space. If it works, it will be fantastic for the relationship and create a sense of intimacy. If not, you will probably part ways!
museum
- عجائب گھر
- Ajaaib ghar
If you’re looking for unique date ideas that are fun but won’t break the bank, museums are the perfect spot! You won’t be running out of things to say in the conversations.
have dinner and see a movie
- رات کا کھانا کھانا اور فلم دیکھنا
- Raat ka khana khana aur film daikhna.
This is traditional date choice works perfectly well. Just make sure you and your date like the same kind of movies!
3. Must-know Valentine’s Day Vocabulary
Expressing your feelings honestly is very important in any relationship all year round. Yet, on Valentine’s Day you really want to shine. Impress your lover this Valentine’s with your excellent vocabulary, and make his/her day! We teach you, in fun, effective ways, the meanings of the words and how to pronounce them. You can also copy the characters and learn how to write ‘I love you’ in Urdu – think how impressed your date will be!
4. Urdu Love Phrases for Valentine’s Day
So, you now have the basic Valentine’s Day vocabulary under your belt. Well done! But, do you know how to say ‘I love you’ in Urdu yet? Or perhaps you are still only friends. So, do you know how to say ‘I like you’ or ‘I have a crush on you’ in Urdu? No? Don’t worry, here are all the love phrases you need to bowl over your Urdu love on this special day!
You mean so much to me.
- تم میرے لیے انتہائی اہم ہو
- tum mere liye intehai aihem ho
This is a beautiful expression of gratitude that will enhance any relationship! It makes the receiver feel appreciated and their efforts recognized.
Will you be my Valentine?
- کیا تم میری ویلنٹائن بنو گی؟
- kia tum meri velentine bano gi?
With these words, you are taking your relationship to the next level! Or, if you have been a couple for a while, it shows that you still feel the romance. So, go for it!
You’re so beautiful.
- آپ بہت خوبصورت ہو.
- aap bohat khubsurat ho.
If you don’t know how to say ‘You’re pretty’ in Urdu, this is a good substitute, gentlemen!
I think of you as more than a friend.
- میں تم کو ایک دوست سے بڑھ کر سمجھتا ہوں
- main tum ko aik dost say barh kar samajhta hoon.
Say this if you are not yet sure that your romantic feelings are reciprocated. It is also a safe go-to if you’re unsure about the Urdu dating culture.
A hundred hearts would be too few to carry all my love for you.
- تمھارے لیے میری محبت کو تھامنے کے لئے سو دل بھی کم ہوں گے
- Tumharay liye meri tamaam muhabbat ko thamnay kayliye soo dil bhi kam hongay.
You romantic you…! When your heart overflows with love, this would be the best phrase to use.
Love is just love. It can never be explained.
- محبت صرف محبت ہے. اس کی وضاحت نہیں کی جا سکتی.
- Muhabbat sirf muhabbat hai, is ki wazaahat nahin ki ja sakti.
If you fell in love unexpectedly or inexplicably, this one’s for you.
You’re so handsome.
- تم بہت خوبصورت ہو.
- Tum bohat khoobsoorat ho.
Ladies, this phrase lets your Urdu love know how much you appreciate his looks! Don’t be shy to use it; men like compliments too.
I’ve got a crush on you.
- میں تمھارا دیوانہ ہوں
- Main tumhara dewana hoon.
If you like someone, but you’re unsure about starting a relationship, it would be prudent to say this. It simply means that you like someone very, very much and think they’re amazing.
You make me want to be a better man.
- تم مجھ میں ایک بہتر انسان بننے کی چاہ پیدا کرتی ہو
- tum mujh main ek behtar insan ban’ne ki chah paida karti ho
Gentlemen, don’t claim this phrase as your own! It hails from the movie ‘As Good as it Gets’, but it is sure to make your Urdu girlfriend feel very special. Let her know that she inspires you!
Let all that you do be done in love.
- جو کچھ بھی آپ کریں اسے محبت میں کریں
- jo kuch bhi aap karain usay muhabbat main karain
We hope.
You are my sunshine, my love.
- میرا پیار تم ہی ہو، جانم
- mera piyar tum hi ho , jaanum
A compliment that lets your lover know they bring a special quality to your life. Really nice!
Words can’t describe my love for you.
- آپ کے لئے میری محبت کو الفاظ بیان نہیں کر سکتے
- aap kay liye meri muhabbat ko alfaaz byan nahin kar sakte
Better say this when you’re feeling serious about the relationship! It means that your feelings are very intense.
We were meant to be together.
- ہمیں ایک ساتھ ہونا چاہیے تھا
- hamain aik saath hona chahiye tha
This is a loving affirmation that shows you see a future together, and that you feel a special bond with your partner.
If you were thinking about someone while reading this, you’re definitely in love.
- اسے پڑھنے کے دوران اگر آپ کسی کے بارے میں سوچ رہے ہیں، تو یقناً آپ محبت میں مبتلا ہیں
- Isay purhnay key doran aker aap kisi kay baray main sooch rahay hain , to aap yaqeenan muhabbat main mubtala hain
Here’s something fun to tease your lover with. And hope he/she was thinking of you!
I love you.
- میں تم سے پیار کرتا ہوں
- main tum se pyar karta hun
Saying ‘I love you’ in Urdu carries the same weight as in all languages. Use this only if you’re sure and sincere about your feelings for your partner/friend.
5. Urdu Quotes about Love
You’re a love champ! You and your Urdu lover are getting along fantastically, your dates are awesome, your Valentine’s Day together was spectacular, and you’re very much in love. Good for you! Here are some beautiful phrases of endearment in Urdu that will remind him/her who is in your thoughts all the time.
6. Marriage Proposal Lines
Wow. Your Urdu lover is indeed the love of your life – congratulations! And may only happiness follow the two of you! In most traditions, the man asks the woman to marry; this is also the Urdu custom. Here are a few sincere and romantic lines that will help you to ask your lady-love for her hand in marriage.
7. 15 Most Common Break-Up Lines
Instead of moving towards marriage or a long-term relationship, you find that the spark is not there for you. That is a pity! But even though breaking up is never easy, continuing a bad or unfulfilling relationship would be even harder. Remember to be kind to the person you are going to say goodbye to; respect and sensitivity cost nothing. Here are some phrases to help you break up gently.
- مجھے تنہا چھوڑ دو
- Mujhay tanha chor do.
When a person is too clingy or demanding, this would be an suitable break-up phrase. It is another good go-to for that lover who doesn’t get the message!
We need to talk.
- ہمیں بات کرنے کی ضرورت ہے.
- hamain baat kernay ki zaroorat hay
This is not really a break-up line, but it is a good conversation opener with a serious tone.
It’s not you. It’s me.
- یہ تم نہیں. یہ میں ہوں.
- Ye tum naheen, Ye main hoon.
As long as you mean it, this can be a kind thing to say. It means that there’s nothing wrong with your Urdu lover as a person, but that you need something different from a relationship.
I’m just not ready for this kind of relationship.
- میں بس اس قسم کے تعلق کے لئے تیار نہیں ہوں
- main bus iss qisam kay taalluq kay liye tayyar naheen hoon.
Things moved a bit fast and got too intense, too soon? Painful as it is, honesty is often the best way to break up with somebody.
Let’s just be friends.
- چلو ہم دوست بن جائیں
- Chalo ham dost ban jaain.
If the relationship was very intense, and you have sent many ‘i love u’ texts in Urdu, this would not be a good breakup line. Feelings need to calm down before you can be friends, if ever. If the relationship has not really developed yet, a friendship would be possible.
I think we need a break.
- میرے خیال میں ہمیں ایک وقفے کی ضرورت ہے
- meray khayal main hamain aik waqfay ki zaroorat hay.
This is again honest, and to the point. No need to play with someone’s emotions by not letting them know how you feel. However, this could imply that you may fall in love with him/her again after a period of time, so use with discretion.
You deserve better.
- تم بہتر کے مستحق ہو
- Tum behtar kay mustahiq ho.
Yes, he/she probably deserves a better relationship if your own feelings have cooled down.
We should start seeing other people.
- ہم دوسرے لوگوں سے ملنا شروع کرنا چاہیے
- hamain doosre logon se milna shuuru karna chahiye
This is probably the least gentle break-up phrase, so reserve it for a lover that doesn’t get the message!
I think we’re moving too fast.
- میرے خیال میں ہم بہت زیادہ تیز جا رہے ہیں
- meray khayal main hum bohat zayada taiz ja rahay hain.
Say this if you want to keep the relationship, but need to slow down its progress a bit. It is also good if you feel things are getting too intense for your liking. However, it is not really a break-up line, so be careful not to mislead.
I need to focus on my career.
- میں اپنے پیشے پر توجہ مرکوز کرنے کی ضرورت ہے.
- Mujhay apnay payshay per tawajjoh markooz karnay ki zaroorat hay.
If you feel that you will not be able to give 100% in a relationship due to career demands, this is the phrase to use. It’s also good if you are unwilling to give up your career for a relationship.
I’m not good enough for you.
- میں آپ کے لئے بہت اچھا نہیں ہوں
- main aap kay liye bohat achcha naheen hoon.
Say this only if you really believe it, or you’ll end up sounding false. Break-ups are usually hard for the receiving party, so don’t insult him/her with an insincere comment.
I just don’t love you anymore.
- میں مزید آپ سے محبت نہیں کرتا۔
- main mazeed aap say muhabbat nahi kerta
This harsh line is sometimes the best one to use if you are struggling to get through to a stubborn, clingy lover who won’t accept your break up. Use it as a last resort. Then switch your phone off and block their emails!
We’re just not right for each other.
- ہم صرف ایک دوسرے کے لئے ٹھیک نہیں ہیں.
- hum aik dusray kay liye theak naheen hain.
If this is how you truly feel, you need to say it. Be kind, gentle and polite.
It’s for the best.
- یہ اچھے کے لیے ہے.
- yeh achay kay liye hai
This phrase is called for if circumstances are difficult and the relationship is not progressing well. Love should enhance one’s life, not burden it!
We’ve grown apart.
- ہم علیحدہ ہو گئے ہیں
- hum alehda ho gae hain
Cross-cultural relationships are often long-distance ones, and it is easy to grow apart over time.
8. Will Falling in Love help you Learn Urdu faster?
Most people will agree that the above statement is a no-brainer – of course it will! Your body will be flooded with feel-good hormones, which are superb motivators for anything. UrduPod101 is one of the best portals to help help make this a reality, so don’t hesitate to enroll now! Let’s quickly look at the reasons why falling in love will speed up your learning of the Urdu language.
Three Reasons Why Having a Lover will Help you Learn Urdu Faster!
1- Being in a love relationship with your Urdu speaking partner will immerse you in the culture
UrduPod101 uses immersive methods and tools to teach you Urdu, but having a relationship with a native speaker will be a very valuable addition to your learning experience! You will gain exposure to their world, realtime and vividly, which will make the language come alive even more for you. The experience is likely to expand your world-view, which should motivate you to learn Urdu even faster.
2- Having your Urdu romantic partner will mean more opportunity to practice speaking
Nothing beats continuous practice when learning a new language. Your partner will probably be very willing to assist you in this, as your enhanced Urdu language skills will enhance the relationship. Communication is, after all, one of the most important pillars of a good partnership. Also, you will get to impress your lover with the knowledge gained through your studies – a win/win situation!
3- A supportive Urdu lover is likely to make a gentle, patient teacher and study aid!
With his/her heart filled with love and goodwill for you, your Urdu partner is likely to patiently and gently correct your mistakes when you speak. This goes not only for grammar, but also for accent and meaning. With his/her help, you could sound like a native in no time!
Three Reasons Why UrduPod101 helps you learn Urdu Even Faster when you’re In Love
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1- All the Resources and Materials Will Help Both of You
Falling in love with a man or woman speaking Urdu is an opportunity for both of you to learn a new language! For this reason, every lesson, transcript, vocabulary list, and resource at UrduPod101 is translated into both English and Urdu. So, while your partner can help you learn Urdu faster, you can potentially also help him/her learn and master English!
2- Lessons Are Designed to Help You Understand and Engage with Urdu Culture
At UrduPod101, our focus is to help our students learn practical vocabulary and phrases used by everyday people in Pakistan. This means that, from your very first lesson, you can apply what you learn immediately! So, when your Urdu partner wants to go out to a restaurant, play Pokemon Go, or attend just about any social function, you have the vocabulary and phrases necessary to have a great time!
3- Access to Special Resources Dedicated to Romantic Urdu Phrases
You now have access to UrduPod101’s specially-developed sections and tools to teach you love words, phrases, and cultural insights to help you find and attract your Urdu soul mate. A personal tutor will assist you to master these brilliantly – remember to invite him/her to your wedding!
